When coming up on the fourth month of my pregnancy, I had a wave of paranoia about being ill-prepared. God forbid I bring a new baby into the house without the best infant tub or most comfortable stroller on the market. With the help of my sister (mother of three under five and my personal momma mentor) we successfully scanned the best baby registry known to any expectant momma. She (Deborah) explained what specific product works the best for its category and why. She had five years of self trial and error and not one item that she had suggested has failed me.
After bring Eleanor home, I realized that my preparations were extraordinary. Although greatful for my hoard, I had a collection that resembled Babies R Us itself. I know it is always safe to be well prepared, but the percentage of things I used within the first three months (and even now) could have been cut in half.
That infant tub I worried about not having, Ive used it twice (we have always bathed together). And, the stroller we pined over, Ive used it three times (wearing her is more convenient).
I definitely will prepare differently, and more simpler, next time. But also, I have learned a few little products and tricks that have worked well for our family and Eleanor.
1. Booty balm, I swear by this product. I smear it on Eleanors buns about once a day. She has never had an irritation or rash of any kind. It smells amazing and applies non-sticky or thick, like other products.
2. Carters white long sleeve onesies with mittens. We had specifically asked for no clothes at our baby shower. That was one department I knew I would enjoy shopping for! We had purchased a few adorable outfits, one to wear home, and others because I couldn't resist. among all of what I bought, she wore nothing but these specific onesies for the first month. The mittens are practical and they were most comfortable for my little honey.
3. Graco swing I loved this specific design because it wasnt an eyesore to have in the living room. Eleanor slept in this during the day for the first three months. When I was pregnant, I had read that the music you favor calms your nerves, thus creating a calming environment for your baby in utero. When the baby is born, the same familiar sound will, again, sooth them. I agreed and made a playlist of music...and picked out this swing ;) This swing not only glides right to left, but also connects and plays your Ipod. Sure enough, Eleanor was smitten with the exact playlist I had listened to. She still, to this day, perks her ears to a specific genre of music.
4. Great expectaions. Deborah had given me this book. I had started reading the oh so popular "what to expect", I found it frightening. I hated the way they explained pregnancy, it seemed to be painful and unnatural. Great Expectations, for me, was enlightening. They answered every question and wrote in a positive manner. I also read Hypnobirthing. Although I did not have a "natural" birth (I loved my epidural), this book was an outstanding coach. I fully recommend and stand by both of these books.
5. Tommee tippee bibs. I love that "dribble catcher"! It prevents the dreaded "cheese neck".
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